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How To Bury A Narcissist Book

Take The Hero's Journey And Become Who You Were Always Meant To Be

How To Bury A Narcissist Book

Gain A Bulletproof Understanding

Learn about the dynamics of narcissism, including the mind of the narcissist and the narcissistic family.

Transcend The Narcissist

Break free of codependency for good. Explore the eight stages for transformation to complete your narcissistic abuse recovery.

Unleash your authentic self

Get in touch with the inherent power of your True Self and live a life of agency, serenity and authenticity.

book Description

You have successfully broken free and are on the path to recovery. Yet the weight of emotional abuse still plagues you, and you seem to keep attracting narcissists.

Break free of narcissism for good by:

  1. Gaining a bulletproof understanding of the psychology and sociology of narcissism, which gifts you an indispensable bird's-eye view.
  2. Diving deep into your authentic Self and undergoing a complete transformation, which empowers you beyond measure.

Throughout this book, the mythology of the hero’s journey will serve as a guide. Like the hero in the story, you will leave the familiar behind, venture into the depths of your shadow, and conquer the ‘demons’ of your past, before returning with the ‘gold’: an actualised Self immune from narcissistic abuse.

‘How To Bury A Narcissist’ is one of the last books on the topic you will need. It is an all-inclusive reference on narcissism and a spiritual guide for transformation, separated into four parts:


Learn the building blocks of the True Self; security, vitality, tenacity, divinity and wisdom, and understand how they combine to actualise your power and give your life purpose and meaning.


  • Discover the shadowy roots of narcissism.
  • Expose the many hidden faces of the narcissist, including the borderline, the histrionic, the psychopath, and other cluster A, B and C personalities.
  • Study the narcissist's playbook, including triangulation, gaslighting and reactive abuse.
  • Explore in detail the roles and dynamics of the narcissistic family and see how this blueprint corrupts friendships, workplaces and spiritual movements.
  • Identity your place in this landscape, and above all, discover what made you vulnerable to abuse in the first place.


Embark on a modern-day spiritual quest to rescue your wounded inner child and discover the source of your power - the True Self.

The hero’s journey includes eight stages for ‘Self’ development:

  1. Awakening: Expose and tear down the narcissist’s illusory Dystopia.
  2. Orphanhood: Face and release your abandonment wound. Channel the Orphan archetype to carry you through the wilderness of transformation.
  3. Metamorphosis: Use the art of centering to awaken your spiritual power and pave the way to your True Self, setting you up for transformation.
  4. Reclaiming security: Anchor yourself firmly within and learn to thrive in the face of uncertainty and fear.
  5. Reclaiming vitality: Unleash spontaneity and high-energy states by aligning with the flow of life.
  6. Reclaiming tenacity: Welcome tension as an agent for growth, and use it to increase your assertiveness and capacity to set boundaries.
  7. Reclaiming divinity: Learn to validate yourself from within, and let go of the need for outside approval.
  8. Reclaiming wisdom: Tap into the vast intelligence inside you and use it for maturity, understanding and insight.


Having sufficiently developed the Self, you awaken fully. The tyranny of narcissism collapses, and you look ahead with hope to an empowered, actualised way of life.

By helping you Self-actualise, ‘How To Bury A Narcissist’ opens you to an unimaginable state of power. This profound shift transforms the narcissist’s influence from a devastating storm into a harmless breeze, allowing you to finally move on and become who you were born to be.

This is the art of burying a narcissist.

Book Reviews

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Both of his books were very helpful, but you need to be ready to deal with the truth of what you lived through. I read about 30 books before I found these. If I hadn't faced the truth about what I lived with, his books wouldn't have had the same effect. Both books allowed me to switch my focus off of my abuser and on to the inner work I needed - Thank you Mr. Simon!
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So much resonates. Many answers bere. Just bought both books after the journey of healing from narcs. Seeking to clear the roots and rise higher, sparing my children this heritage. Seeking evolution, understanding at a deeper level.
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I read How to Kill… six months ago and it really, really helped me. This book How to Bury… is simply incredible. The language hits home. I know I can do this and make permanent changes. Lookout, Narcissists, here comes a wave of change.
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I wish I had found this book earlier. One of the best books on narcissism I have ever read. The cover was slow to catch my eye, but the content showed itself to be just what I needed to read.
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Great book. Helps a lot more then you would think.

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