Why Your Narcissistic Ex Discarded You

The sad reality is that your narcissistic ex was always going to discard you. It is a cycle that was set in motion the second they laid eyes on you. The nature of the discard, however, depends on how they have classified you.

To bolster their grandiose realm, the narcissist must recruit people. Yet not anyone can qualify. This club is exclusive, and has two entry requirements:

1. A willingness to provide narcissistic supply.
2. Proof of perfection.

For this reason, anyone the narcissist associates with must be useful and/or high value.

The narcissist’s bread and butter is to have a harem of subjects and admirers in their psychological pantheon of targets. If a target is willing to offer attention, sex, resources or services, then the narcissist will idealise them as worthwhile subjects — so long...