How Narcissists Secretly Get Even With You

Over and again, for weeks, I have come back to this article to write it. Yet each time I clicked away, plagued by doubt and unease. How do I write about something when I cannot connect cause and effect?

The only tangible proof is the pain you feel, which you label as ‘narcissistic abuse’. Yet what if I told you that something deeper might lie behind these attacks? What if it was revenge for something you did days, weeks or even months before?

Proving the existence of this covert ‘black book’ is like proving the existence of the devil. I usually only write about something if I have witnessed it in myself, or had it confirmed by another person. In this case, none of that has happened. Therefore, I offer full disclosure now: I have no proof for this. I am only going by my gut feeling.

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