Borderlines are some of the most charming, loveable and seductive people you will ever meet. Being at their side is like sitting by a fire. There’s something deeply comforting and warm about a borderline, but you also sense that, much like a fire, if you get too close, you will get burnt.
Funnily enough, narcissists come across the same way at the beginning. They direct their fire onto you, lighting up parts of you you never knew existed. Of course, in reality, you are being brought under the wing of a dragon. But none of this comes through. The narcissist remains charming and as inoffensive as anyone you’ve met.
A Dragon Without Its Armour
No narcissist is a pure narcissist. Some have psychopathic states, while others have a weaker narcissistic layer, with their grandiosity more fickle than a thin crisp ch...