
The fact that you’re here means you’re onto something..
Maybe a particular event burst the bubble and a small gap opened up as a result. A gap in what, you’re not sure, but you felt it. It happened when a significant person in your life went that little bit too far, and you finally said to yourself: ‘This is not normal. Why am I tolerating this crap?’ You didn’t really know what normal was, but you knew that the union which you have with this person is definitely not it.
Through this small gap which opened up, you may have begun to realise some or all of the following about your relationship:
Then one thing leads to another, and you find yourself googling ‘Narcissistic Personality Disorder’. You read a few articles, and your jaw drops. After the initial shock wears off, you investigate further. It’s like your life story is being told to you. You begin to wonder: can this be true? Do people like this really exist? You read on. Finally, it hits you with full force. You realise that you’re not crazy; what you’ve been experiencing all this time is definitely real. People like this do exist. Not only do they exist in the world, they exist in your world.
You don’t know whether to laugh or cry. You feel rage, sadness and despair, and a little bit of relief. You walk around with a sense of lightness, but also with a sense of having been stained somehow. Your entire reality has been turned on its head. You start questioning your core instincts. You realise that the relationship dynamics which you accepted and took as gospel are both unhealthy and grossly manipulative. You start to look at people differently. You monitor their behaviour, even that of the people you have known for years or a lifetime. The picture is not entirely clear. What is clear, however, is that you have a problem with narcissists, and you’re only just waking up to it.
'How To Kill A Narcissist' and 'How To Bury A Narcissist' are for the targets of narcissism who:
Learn to identify emotional abuse and narcissistic traits. Understand how the narcissist uses shaming and mind control to break you down.
With your newfound knowledge, learn to guard and protect yourself from toxic relationships with narcissists.
Follow a simple step-by-step guide broken down into 7 easy practices to help you break free from narcissistic abuse. Escape the cycle of emotional abuse and become yourself again.
Understand the dynamics of narcissism at home and in the world. Learn how the intergenerational narcissistic family permeates all of society.
Explore the eight stages for transformation to complete your narcissistic abuse recovery. Unleash security, vitality, tenacity, divinity and wisdom.
Get in touch with the inherent power of your True Self and become formidable. Live a life filled with agency, serenity and authenticity - on your own terms.
© JH Simon