The Lurking Danger Of The Aware Narcissist

What Happens When A Narcissist Awakens To What They Are?

Written by JH Simon

The Lurking Danger Of The Aware Narcissist

Narcissism is like a computer program with a predictable set of rules.

It starts with a dissociated, imaginary construct of the mind known as the false self, which compensates for a traumatised, shame-bound core. No matter what, a narcissist needs to constantly fuel this false self with narcissistic supply in the form of adulation, attention, sex, material goods or being served.

To fill the gaps in their dissociated reality, the narcissist gaslights themselves and others to form a Frankenstein truth, all in a desperate attempt to come across as ‘sane’ and ‘normal’.

A narcissist bonds with an idealisation rather than a real person, and when the real person infringes on the narcissist, the narcissist devalues and tosses them away. This cycle repeats infinitely until the narcissist dies or gives up on relationships, or the world gives up on them.

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JH Simon
JH Simon is the top-selling author of 'How To Kill A Narcissist' and 'How To Bury A Narcissist'. His books on narcissism have sold hundreds of thousands of copies and helped countless people navigate their way out of narcissistic abuse and toward freedom.

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