Modern dating is rough. From getting caught in the dopamine trap of dating apps, to competing with thousands of people sliding into your potential lover’s DMs on social media, there is a lot of reason to despair.
With dating apps, people are reduced to being a sexual ‘offering’ among an endless stack of options. As a result, objectification is rampant. Women especially can have hundreds of matches. With unlimited choice, commitment becomes the least desirable option of all.
Narcissism is the 21st century’s new religion. Rather than collectively worshipping one God, or even paganistically worshipping a limited collection of gods, our society is set up for us to worship each other. Social media has created a scramble for narcissistic supremacy, with everyone encouraged to flout their ‘specialness’ by proving how well travelled, financially endowed and adore...